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Transgender MtF (male to female) refers to a person who was AMAB—assigned the gender “male” at birth. This is mainly because they have a male body. However, they identify as female and want to be referred to as "she" because they realized while growing up that they were females, and is transitioning to life as a woman. This is...

In media, portrayals of trans people are few and far between. Even rarer are trans characters who are actually portrayed positively. Granted, it is not the easiest thing to write a trans character, mainly because a lot of people who try to write them  have never met a trans person in real life before (well, not to their best...

One of the things that I see happening a lot within the trans community is a lot of people who are unable or unwilling to see themselves as “trans enough.” This can range from denying their own gender or claiming that they're not “trans enough” to qualify as trans. Those who believe themselves to not be adequately trans may fall under a...

Dating is what everybody does when they are looking for love and ready to engage in a relationship. Transgender nowadays have more options to date more through the various dating sites on the internet wherein all you have to do is a single click in order to start a conversation to the one you are curious about. Before dating, make sure he or...

After your long search for a transgender girlfriend finally bears fruit, your next move should be to ask her out on a date. Of course, you want to make sure that you impress her during the first date, but this is also the easiest time to mess things up. To boost your chances of a second date, you must do some pre-date planning and...

Many trans guys count on FTM dating site to find a partner. While there are some who are there because they enjoy being a part of a community where they belong, some are there because that's the only place they can display confidence. In reality, there are a lot of trans men who lack self-esteem. One of the reasons these individuals have a...

To be able to give love, you have to love yourself first. This is a hackneyed phrase but it really applies to everyone especially for Trans Women who are in a relationship with a woman. When your closet gets loaded with all your girly stuff, you'll have a difficult time choosing which one to wear. Just like in love, when you keep a lot...

As an MTF trans woman, rough hands can be a thorn in your side on your quest for a feminine touch. Having rough hands is understandable due to how much they endure. Unfortunately, rough hands not only mess with your feminine touch but also make your hands look like they belong to someone older than you. If you want to be classy and stylish,...

One of the greatest challenges a Trans Man face is to accept, embrace and love oneself. To accept themselves for whom they are, their feelings and needs and accepting the fact that not everyone you hold dear to your heart will agree to all your decisions in every step of the way. But choosing to love and honour yourself as a Transgender Man,...

Trans people find partners the same ways that cis-people do; we put ourselves into places where possible partners are present. Sometimes we do this on purpose and sometimes it just happens. It's important to note that where you live or hang out matters. Openly transgender people have a much easier time meeting dating partners in more...