My name is not honey, darling, beautiful, sexy. My name is Angela. It is demeaning, disrespectful and objectifying...to be addressed this way in a first contact.
Maybe when one has gotten to be in a serious relationship, things like this are okay. But when making first contact, why cannot MEN show us ladies a little respect?
Just saying...
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bendover_5900
Mar 24 '18
Many men are just looking for a freaky sexual encounter and that is all , To them you could be male , female or a knothole in a tree. It's all about them getting their rocks off.
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VIP angelab
Mar 27 '18
Well pardon me for saying but men like that can go to hell. I am better than that, I deserve better than that.
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Shaneka1228
Apr 5 '18
My name is not honey, darling, beautiful, sexy. My name is Angela. It is demeaning, disrespectful and objectifying...to be addressed this way in a first contact.I would love to show you all the respect you deserve l am lonely in Alabama looking for my best friend and then a LTR so lonely
Maybe when one has gotten to be in a serious relationship, things like this are okay. But when making first contact, why cannot MEN show us ladies a little respect?
Just saying...
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Shaneka1228
Apr 5 '18
My name is not honey, darling, beautiful, sexy. My name is Angela. It is demeaning, disrespectful and objectifying...to be addressed this way in a first contact.I would love to show you all the respect you deserve l am lonely in Alabama looking for my best friend and then a LTR so lonely
Maybe when one has gotten to be in a serious relationship, things like this are okay. But when making first contact, why cannot MEN show us ladies a little respect?
Just saying...
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Shaneka1228
Apr 5 '18
My name is not honey, darling, beautiful, sexy. My name is Angela. It is demeaning, disrespectful and objectifying...to be addressed this way in a first contact.I would love to show you all the respect you deserve l am lonely in Alabama looking for my best friend and then a LTR so lonely
Maybe when one has gotten to be in a serious relationship, things like this are okay. But when making first contact, why cannot MEN show us ladies a little respect?
Just saying...
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VIP Judy
Apr 6 '18
When men say the want to "try a trannie", I suspect they've been spending way too much time on pornhub. I usually suggest they buy a sex doll and then I block them.
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VIP angelab
Apr 7 '18
When men say the want to "try a trannie", I suspect they've been spending way too much time on pornhub. I usually suggest they buy a sex doll and then I block them.TBH, when someone uses that approach on me, it is a major turnoff.
I would like a guy who is OKAY with me being trans...but does not want me BECAUSE I am trans. If that makes sense.
Because I am, and always have been a woman...in mind, soul, heart and spirit. Just got born the wrong way.
But I also want a DECENT man...and that is why the topic starter on this was critical for me, too. I am turned off when someone starts off addressing me in a demeaning way...I do have a name, it is in my profile, and I like to be addressed by it...at least at first.
"Baby names" as it were, to my mind, come much later in a relationship, when you call your significant other hon, babe, sweetheart, whatever...that's okay. But not right off the bat.
I guess it just has something to do with respect and being on equal footing...not sure if this makes sense to a lot of folks here...I think at least some of the ladies here get what I am getting at here, anyway.
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VIP Judy
Apr 21 '18
I know this is a "hook up" site, but when a trans woman or a man posts penis size (and other information) or breast size, I'm pretty sure all they want is sex and it's a signal for me to pass them by. I'm wondering if other gurls get that way too.
This could also be, for me, a way to identify and eliminate trolls.
This could also be, for me, a way to identify and eliminate trolls.
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VIP angelab
Apr 21 '18
I hate that stuff, myself. As if that was like the most important thing about a person...how bug their equipment is?? I care more about how he is going to treat me, in a LTR.
Maybe I am in the wrong place and there IS no right pace for trans girls like me that want to meet decent, respectful kind and gentle men who don't act like a-holes.
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