Hello, you can call me Jenn, Julius, Juju or Jules. I am a trans guy, no HRT or Op yet. I recently got out of a long term relationship before I moved to SoCal, and pretty torn about it. I need to find someone new and exciting in California, maybe to get a fresh start. I came here because other dating sites for trans people are impossible. I want someone to love and like me for who I am and not my body. I had too many "so, do you have a pussy" messages on POF, OKC and tinder. Its rude and even more discouraging. So I stumbled upon here.
I am a very chill and funny dude. I smoke weed very often, and it is to keep my anxiety and depression under control. I am also an artist (I post some of my stuff on here for show-offs) and I love techno/trance music and watching adult cartoons. I have a darker "adult swim" type sense of humor.
If I seem creepy I apologize. I am kinda socially awkward and I know its lame to message "hey" or "whats up" (or just compliment your appearance) but its mainly because I dont know what else to say and Im very bad at being the first approach. I ask for a chance :,3
I am a very sexual person and desire it a lot. If I really have a connection with someone I dont mind sex on the first date. BUT I also greatly respect other people's consent. You dont have to worry about me pressuring you into doing anything you dont want, including drinking, drunks and sex. (though Id rather be with someone who enjoys those things)
I enjoy marijuana and other natural psychedelics, but I am not a drug addict.
Please do NOT message me if you:
-are racist
-are sexist in any way
-dont like heavier/fatter people
-dont want to be with a smoker/drinker
-dont like cats
-dont respect my ftm identity or my body
-are a Trump supporter
-have kids younger than 12 living with you (sorry, I dont like younger kids)
-have a felony or arrest record that dealt with domestic violence (I do background checks before meeting in person)
-are a registered sex offender
-do hardcore drugs often (like meth, crack,heroin, opiates, etc)
-have a pet spider
Marital Status
Single
Relationship
Friendship, Hang Out, Love, A Date, Friends With Benefits, Experimenting, BDSM, Long Term Relationship, Erotic Fantasies, Fetishes
get my books published, my art appreciated and start hormone therapy so I can finally grow a beard. and maybe have my own little apartment full of cannabis plants. not too much to ask!
How Do You Swing
Sex with your partners only
My Perfect Match
Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Good Looks, Sensitivity, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness
Body Art
Visible Tattoo
My Kind of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Sadistic, Raunchy
Back in High School
Nerd, Outcast, Quiet One
My Social Behavior
Comedic, Dark, Friendly, Observant, Shy, Strange
My Idea of a Great Time
Clubbing/Bars, Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going to a Casino, Going to a Concert, Going to a Museum, Partying, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Reading a Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying at Home, Watch Movies, Trying New Things, Watch TV
My Ideal of First Date
something simple, but since I am in Cali now a beech date sounds amazing or just exploring the city