I am transgender. But I'm not a tranny, gurl, she-male, or any of the other more derogatory terms out there. I'm not a sissy (though do admire them) and I certainly do not enjoy being fetish object. I am simply a female.
My Ideal Person I don't look for things. I let them happen organically. Get to know people etc. If it works then great. So my ideal person is willing to do the same. And complements my personality, likes, and desires.